I want to join the military ASAP !!! Like literally I also have a 3 month old, will he remember me when I leave for bmt ?? Will he loves me still ?? I know it's silly but I just can't help thinking these stuffs .... What branch is the best branch & how do I start off with recruitment ?? I've tried contacting recruiters but no response 😐😒 any advice ??
I still haven't had my first appointment. Sometimes I really dislike having to use military bases. Every time they have different rules and stupid classes you have to take before your first appointment. With my first they made me take a nutrition class that was filled with kids half my age, for my second they made me wait until I was 15 weeks, this time they are making me have a genetics counseling even though I have done it three times now and my other two are perfectly healthy.
I don't even mind waiting for appointments since the first couple they never did much. I just want the peace of mind having a due date and knowing how many babies I am carrying, and that they have heartbeats. Why can't they do that before all the stupid genetics crap?
My husband is stationed at the DC barracks but we live right between Quantico and Belvoir. I know NO ONE here and not looking forward to going through my first pregnancy alone. Any other mommies in the area?
About 5 months ago a good friend of my husband and I killed himself. He was best friends with my husband (they met in basic and PCS to the same base). He had a family and I was friends with his wife and we only lived a few houses apart. Anyway this happened a few weeks before my husband deployed and we weren't able to go to his funeral or say good bye because there was so much going on. I talked to my husband about how he was feeling and everything before he left but I never brought up how I felt because he didn't need that with our baby due soon and deployment and his own feelings. But lately I've been thinking a lot about our friend all the good memories we had with him and his wife. I've never had to deal with the loss of someone I was friends with and I just wish I could talk about how I feel and my memories to my husband but I know it wouldn't be best with him being deployed and all the stress that goes with it. I guess I needed to just get this off my chest. I want to talk to my husband about everything because he is my best friend but I can't and that sucks on top of everything else.
Hello ladies we are waiting to get married once his family is in town October. Our baby is due in two days and I'm currently not working so things are tight. Do any of you ladies know if once our son is born he can get housing for him until we get married just to help us a little until October. How long does it take to receive housing once we are married? Thanks for any advice
Long but important rant! Please help! :( My husband is deploying soon, and I have to move from where I'm at with my 1 year old and my baby girl who will be almost 2 months by that time because my husband wants me to move by my MIL's house who lives 9 hours away because she will be a big help with baby and she's retired, so she's got tons of free time on her hands. It's also going to help us financially if I move in her house because we won't have to pay any bills. Only food. She has two houses. Her other small house is about 10 min away from where she lives and I'll be living there with my kids while he's away. I keep thinking maybe I could stay here with the kids and possibly get a job. My parents live about a few blocks away and I could move into a 1 bedroom apt. But I wouldn't have anyone to babysit the baby and I'll have to put my son in daycare. My dad works and my mom has a little bit of health issues and is sometimes busy with house work and she has my 3 small siblings to take care of. She babysits my son when I have doctors appts. But thats about it. My husband doesn't want me to stay because he says I won't get the help I need with who will watch the kids and doesn't rely on my parents to do it. So I'm confused!!! What should I do! Where should I move?? :(