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His family came around and I stayed with them while my dad and grandma found out. It's been a crazy emotional roller coaster and he was pushed back 3 weeks so he's already been gone about a month and he JUST started bootcamp really. It's hard to think about how he's just starting and this has been hard to deal with but I'm trying. He's sent really encouraging letters about me being pregnant and he says he's 100% on board. Before bootcamp he and I spent every waking hour together.. I miss him SO much it's crazy. I hope time flies by and we are planning on getting married within the 10 days he's here. My fear is about how easily we can get on base housing. Every one tells me it's so hard because of the waiting list and I don't want to be across the country from him raising our baby.. I just hope everything works out b/c his family is extremely overbearing to him and just ARGH the pregnancy hormones aren't helping either!! Haha I feel like I'm going crazy
I guess I just feel so low I felt like posting this
We are not married and when I found out I was pregnant I decided we could try to make this work. He wanted me to sell my car and said it was unsafe and he wanted me to have something reliable. We went to a dealer, picked out a car and put it in MY name. The dealer let us leave with the car thati day with the promise of paying it in full the following week. I sold the other car. He went and paid the car for sure, but changed it to HIS name. Again, controlling.
Long story short, I'm living in his apartment and driving his car while he is deployed. He threatens to kick me out constantly and to take the car. I literally just got myself two jobs (yes, at 18weeks pregnant) just so I can try my best to get ahead or on my own feet before he gets back and tries to kick me on the streets (or worse try to before he gets back ) The reasons he threatens me for are so petty too! Recently a message that was meant for his daughter's mother came to my phone. Their relationship ended over 6 years ago. It was an apology for having cheated. I was upset that they were even talking about it but also because he had told me he never did cheat on her. So, he lied to me. He made it my fault that he lied and said I'm the wrong one in all this for being upset.