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Reply by laura1120 about 1 hour ago
So awesome! I want to nurse on the Mediterranean....
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Reply by laura1120 41 minutes ago
Omg there's an 18 month sleep regression?!?! Ugh I thought the 4 month one was bad... Not looking forward to it!!
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Reply by laura1120 about 5 hours ago
How does he go back to sleep - rocking, bouncing, bottle, breast? Does he take a paci? Is he in your bed or his own? Things like having dh handle night wake ups helped, so we didn't do CIO, but he cries in dhs arms. Also white noise helps us a lot. And how are his naps? I've read that improving naps is a big key to improving night time sleep. Is he overtired or not tired enough at bedtime? Do you have a set bedtime routine with a good amount of quiet wind down time? Toddlers are so busy, they are definitely difficult to get to sleep. Also, is he teething? The molars are rough. In general, I am not a fan of CIO, but I think there are some cases where it is helpful. Good luck, it sounds pretty exhausting!
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Reply by laura1120 41 minutes ago
I disagree that She needs to be in a crib if you are both okay with her being in your bed. She's probably just having a hard time learning how to sleep without nursing. The book the no cry sleep solution has lots of helpful advice, I believe there is one for toddlers too. Routine is important as is changing sleep associations. It will probably take some time and some tired parents. I would definitely recommend no iPad, that is very stimulating and will wake her up more. Maybe dh can handle the night waking more, she probably doesn't know how to go to sleep with you without nursing. Good luck, cosleeping is wonderful but can be very exhausting.
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Reply by laura1120 about 22 hours ago
So true! I had to dump some milk to be safe once because the tubing for my pump had some gray spots that I thought could be mold. It was ~8 oz. I was so upset watching it go down the drain. Fortunately I had some backup milk in the freezer. Ugh.
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Reply by laura1120 2 days ago
Congratulations!! Very exciting news! I saw your posts in the natural birth forum too. :)
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Reply by laura1120 2 days ago
I agree get everything ready the night before! I leave at 6:30 and am home by 3:30 at the latest. Ds goes to bed around 7:30-8:30. <br /><br />I come home and nurse him and then we play, either in the house or outside, and then I make dinner while he "helps" in the kitchen (you know, helpful things like emptying our utensil drawer and pulling canned goods out of the lazy susan)<br /><br />Then we play some more and start getting ready for bed. If its a bath night I do it so we can hang out. Dh will clean up after dinner and I do the bedtime routine. Ds is 16 mo but was 4 mo when I went back to work. It's hard at first but you'll get into a routine. You can nap and snuggle with LO when you get home too. My husband did most of the cooking at first so I could spend time with ds, but now we share that responsibility more. <br /><br />If you are home by 3/3:30, you are pretty fortunate that you will have a good several hours to be with your baby, I can't imagine working until 5 or 6 and LO going to bed at 7:30! That would be so hard. <br /><br />You'll get used to it and so will<br />LO, it gets easier. Basically, I always feel like I do it and make it work because I have to. Good luck momma!
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Reply by laura1120 about 4 hours ago
So cute!
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Reply by laura1120 4 days ago
Happy birthday! Good job to your dh on that gift. <br /><br />We use the boba 3G and love it. Ds is 16 mo, ~29 pounds and is 34 in. Dh back carries him mostly and I front carry. He's getting a little hard for me to carry for long periods of time, plus he wants to walk everywhere. I think we might get one of those backpack with a built in frame for adventures around the city and in the park.
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Reply by laura1120 3 days ago
6 months postpartum.
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