So this is what I packed:
-2 pairs of dark colored, thick pj pants & 2 shirts so I can be comfy & not have to stay in a hospital gown
-an outfit to wear home. Black yoga pants, long sleeve shirt, underwear, socks, warm shoes
-2 more pairs of socks
-2 more pairs of underwear
-eyeliner & mascara for when we leave and maybe for when we have visitors, and because I know I'll be in pictures
-hair ties & hair clips
-flip flops for shower
-towel for the car ride in case my water breaks
Some of the things I'm taking are going to have to be packed right before I go because I still need to use them now (hairbrush, shoes, yoga pants, makeup remover, & makeup).
-Stick of CJ's BUTTer
-portable Changing pad
-Coming home outfit with hat & mittens (will replace afterwards with an extra change of clothes)
-soft toy/blanket thing
-baby nail clippers
-thick minky blanket
After my hospital stay I'll add an extra shirt for me, snacks, & water to the diaper bag.
EDIT: I said it in my original post and in several comments already. I didn't pack the diaper bag specifically for that day! I packed it for the future and I'm just taking it because I have his clothes and blanket in it, I'm not taking it to use diapers and wipes & I know he's not going to care about toys yet. Like I said, the diaper bag has a few things I will in fact need, so I'm just taking that instead of trying to stuff his blanket and outfit in my bag too. His clothes are so small I don't want to be hunting through my duffle bag for them, they fit snug in the diaper bag so I'm just taking that.
So please do not comment just saying the hospital has X item I have in my diaper bag or something. I know that, you're wasting effort by telling me that when I've already said why I'm bringing the diaper bag