Open discussion by parents and parents-to-be about child raising issues.
So I went ahead and allowed my bd a visitation with dd. He was in L.A. and that's not too far from me. While dd is w/bd, bd and uncle called me. Told me I had to give up custody and that bd is going to NYC w/dd.
Before bd's visitation:
September I spent money for an apt in Fresno, but apt place turned me away. I came back to my crazy landlord who charges an arm and a leg. Paid her almost all of what I had for the next 3 months. September, October, November. Landlord claims in October I never paid her anything for the whole time living here (before September included) and put my stuff out. Cops told her she can't do that and to let me in. She stole, broke, and damaged my things now and before September. Long explanation short. Bd ask for visit at perfect time. Not so perfect he left w/dd.
After I broke the engagement off with bd (2013) and had dd, he has been anger w/me. I want to do what's best for dd, but I live in a garage and in unsafe conditions. I'm a full-time student and after dd was born I started up an ebusiness, but haven't launched it yet. Its good support and income but WHAT DO I DO!?! I want my baby but not to live like this. Unfortunately he needs his father in his life or he will always search to try and fill the gap of his absent father.
What do I do?